Why Colleen Hoover Books Are Amazing Escapes, But Poor Love Lessons

The Thrills and Spills of Fictional Romance vs. Real-Life Relationship Realities

Amanda Weston
4 min readJul 15, 2024
AI-generated image of a couple looking unhappy © Amanda Weston

Ah, Colleen Hoover.

Her name alone sends shivers of excitement down the spines of romance novel enthusiasts everywhere. With plot twists sharper than Cupid’s arrow and emotional rollercoasters that rival a midlife crisis, Hoover’s books are undeniably entertaining.

But let’s face it: if you’re looking to her novels for relationship guidance, you might as well take cooking lessons from Hannibal Lecter.

A Fictional World of Emotional Whirlwinds

First off, let’s acknowledge that Hoover’s books are designed to entertain, not educate. Her characters live in a realm where love triangles, deep-seated trauma, and heart-wrenching decisions are as common as morning coffee. In this universe, grand gestures solve everything, and communication issues are often swept under the rug until they explode in a, a-hem, dramatic climax.

While this makes for a riveting read, applying these principles to real-life relationships is akin to navigating a minefield with a blindfold.

The Allure of Drama

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Amanda Weston

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